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Why do men cheat on their wives with someone extremely unattractive?

08.06.2025 20:50

Why do men cheat on their wives with someone extremely unattractive?

That’s why a lot of men cheat, I think: because what he’s missing from his life is a sympathetic ear and enjoyable sex. Being beautiful on its own simply does not do either of those things for a husband, whereas it’s entirely possible for an ugly woman to do both of those things.

So I’m not really impressed by this common idea that women seem to have that cheating only makes sense if the girl a guy cheats with is at least as hot as if not hotter than you. A much better reason to cheat on a beautiful spouse is if she’s a frigid bitch, and the woman he cheats with is nice to him and sucks his dick well.

Here’s the deal: it’s a pain in the ass to try to court a beautiful woman. You gotta pay for dates, dress up, think of clever presents, fend off the guys who try to sneak their way into your position, all so that after maybe a month or two of faithful dating and first or second base you can find out that…she’s never really had to try in the bedroom.

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

Oh, and those other guys who want to steal your beautiful girlfriend? They’re the only ones who give a shit if your girlfriend is hot. Your family and your friends (at least, your real friends who wouldn’t screw you over) only care if your girlfriend treats you well, and that has nothing to do with her looks.

Because they wanted to get laid.

As a bit of a side note, but I think it’s important for women to hear this too: if I could go back in time and intervene in some of my own romantic choices, I would remind myself that what really matters in a significant other is their capacity to provide emotional support and how fun sex with them is. Doesn’t matter if I’m with a ten or a four, if they don’t make me happy in the ways that are specifically delegated to a significant other, I shouldn’t marry them. Those aren’t the only valuable traits in a significant other, but they are the most valuable traits in a significant other.

What is the most heartbreaking or sad love story that you ever had (experienced)?